When your celibate and trying to date while being saved... So last night I went out on a date. Its this guy I met at work and hes really cool and been trying to take me out forever but I always flake. I took Kash with me and we went to dinner. As we sat at the table he told me about his ex, I decided now would be the perfect time to let him know I dont want to have sex nor do I want to kiss until Im married. Now its really hard to explain celibacy to an adult without sounding overly religious, and Im hardly religious I just have a relationship with Jesus. And about that, its even harder to explain that what Jesus thinks really matters to you because your in relationship with Him, when their not in relationship with Jesus so you just wind up sounding crazy. But I tried to explain, it went in one ear and out the other. He was like ok your celibate now but if you really start to like me you'll give me some. On the next date you can come to my house and Ill cook for you. No sir. He didn't get it and he wont be getting none of me. Still we finished our date it went great and he didn't even let me look at the bill or leave the tip. Refreshing. When we got to the car he tried to kiss me I pushed him away. When we got to my gate he tried to press up against me and kiss me.... When me and KD first started trying to be coparents I told him about my relationship with Fitness Man and how I didn't think it was going to work out because he didn't want to marry me. He nodded his head as if he heard everything I had just said and told me "I respect that, if you don't stand for something you'll fall for anything."
And so as this guy continued to say eff your beliefs by trying to kiss me I pushed him off of me and yelled out "If you don't stand for something you'll fall for anything!" And he got it and he stopped lol. I think I'm good on the whole dating front for now.
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